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As glamourous as living abroad sounds, it can also be struggling at times. Here's how to overcome these challenges!
Living in Spain for the past 6 months has been not only an incredible experience but a deeply educational one. Alongside learning more about the Spanish language, culture, and way of life, living alone in a different country from my family, my comfort zone and my environment has taught me so much. Before moving I had never lived or travelled alone, and since moving, these things are a huge part of my life. As glamourous as living alone and abroad sounds, it can present its challenges. I want to share these today for anyone who may have be struggling to reassure you are not alone and to give you encouragement that when the difficult days can be overcome.
Upon learning that I would be studying abroad in Spain, a wave of relief washed over me. The prospect of affordable flights back home in times of homesickness and the excitement of traversing Europe's landscapes via trains and buses filled me with anticipation. However, amidst this excitement, I encountered a formidable challenge: my visa. Opting to apply for my visa upon arrival in Spain due to delays in the UK seemed logical. Armed with all necessary documents, I presumed the process would be straightforward, as per the guidelines outlined by the Spanish consulate in London. To my surprise, I found myself confronted not only with disparities in the application procedure but also with the complexities of navigating a foreign legal system in a language I hadn't mastered.
Despite successfully submitting my application, the revelation that its processing would take a staggering seven months hit me hard. Consequently, I have remained bound to Spain since my arrival. While I have cherished my time here, witnessing others depart for Christmas and holidays while I stayed behind was a bitter pill to swallow. Missing significant family gatherings, such as weddings, only accentuated this feeling. This experience has served as a poignant reminder of the privileges I often take for granted. It underscored the importance of adaptability and resilience in the face of unforeseen challenges. Though my journey has been fraught with obstacles, it has also been rich with invaluable lessons and experiences that have shaped me profoundly.
In addition to grappling with visa woes, my time in Spain presented me with another formidable trial: being robbed not once, but twice. Each instance left me reeling, grappling with fear and uncertainty as I navigated the aftermath in a foreign land.
Faced with the daunting task of reporting the incidents to the police and navigating the administrative hurdles—all in Spanish—added layers of complexity to an already distressing situation. Communicating with authorities in a language I hadn't fully mastered was a daunting challenge, fraught with misunderstandings and moments of frustration
I also encountered a series of unforeseen challenges that tested my resolving techniques and resourcefulness. One of the most daunting hurdles was the ordeal with my apartment. Living alone, with a landlord who spoke no English, magnified the complexities of dealing with various housing issues. From sudden electrical outages to burst pipes and even structural damage to my floor, it felt like a never-ending cascade of problems. Each time an issue arose, I found myself thrust into a realm of uncertainty, grappling with the daunting task of resolving matters in a language I was still mastering. Navigating the intricacies of the rental market and addressing disputes with my landlord in Spanish proved to be a steep learning curve. Communication barriers often led to misunderstandings, exacerbating already tense situations. Yet, with each setback, I persevered, determined to find solutions and assert my rights as a tenant. These experiences not only tested my resilience but also sharpened my problem-solving skills and deepened my understanding of Spanish culture and bureaucracy. Through patience, persistence, and a willingness to adapt, I gradually learned to navigate the complexities of renting in a foreign country.
I don’t share this to instil fear, but rather to inspire resilience and optimism. It's crucial to acknowledge the challenges I faced, but equally important to highlight how these obstacles have transformed me and instilled a sense of confidence.
Studying abroad, especially in a country with a different language and culture, is undoubtedly a journey filled with ups and downs. While I encountered my fair share of hurdles – from administrative hassles to housing issues and academic adjustments – each challenge became an opportunity for growth.
Through perseverance and determination, I navigated through uncertainties, emerging stronger and more resilient with each trial overcome. These experiences have not only broadened my horizons but have also equipped me with invaluable life skills. I want to reassure others embarking on similar journeys that despite the inevitable bumps along the road, it will be okay. Embracing the challenges, rather than fearing them, is key to personal growth and fulfilment. Every obstacle conquered is a testament to one's resilience and adaptability.
So, I urge everyone to celebrate not only the good days but also the moments of struggle and triumph. It's through facing adversity that we discover our true strength and potential. As daunting as it may seem at times, studying abroad is a transformative experience that has the power to shape us in profound ways, leaving us better equipped to tackle whatever challenges lie ahead.