When I first strolled around the UCL campus, those steps were of many firsts. It was my first time in the UK, my first in London and marked the beginning of my university education. Without a doubt, it is going to be one of many firsts for you too. It might be the case that this is the first time you’ve been this far away from home.
Hopefully, by sharing some experiences and some things that have worked for myself and others in similar circumstances, it’ll ease the nerves and uncertainties of starting your journey here.
One of the more common concerns before starting the term is the feeling of being overwhelmed by what seems to be a significant amount of admin. There are certainly many documents and tasks to get in order, living arrangements, visas, getting used to a new place and routine.
Apart from organising and time management, one of the first things to address is that it will be quite hectic finding your bearings in a new environment. It would be worth spending some time locating several places that will become part of your weekly routine. For instance, simply knowing where your local supermarkets are, shops for stationery, cooking and food utensils, or simply getting to know where your favourite coffee and pastries will be.
For us international students especially, we searched for places where we could get a taste of home. It occurred to us quite early on, that although experiencing new cuisines and cultures are an essential part of being somewhere new, from time to time, we indulge in a little nostalgic gustatory trip down our memories again.
Apart from the fundamentals, there comes the greatest challenge of all. Being far away from home is perhaps one of the more difficult things to get used to. A part of what we miss is the inherent atmosphere of being in a shared space of activity, an unspoken bond of a similar culture, language and identity. Uncertainty of what is new may come from having to learn and adapt with certain social rules. That uncertainty, that invisible gap of things not feeling quite right, constitutes what many would call being homesick.
For most of us, we have found a combination of two things that helped. One, was to remain in touch with friends and family from home. Consequently, being in a new place has helped some of us find a deeper appreciation for those we love and care about. The second is do and see more. You will make new friends, some will be in a similar situation as yourself, some will have grown up here. These friends can empathise and share your journey as well as guiding you towards assimilating and comprehending a new cultural environment.
Embracing new experiences, new people may be uncomfortable at first, but they will help you grow. Have faith in yourself and others, there are helpers all around us, you got this!
Dylan Ngan, UCL Philosophy
Published: 10 July 2023