“We had a series of lectures in second year from a professor who’s well known in the medical school. One of my friends in the year above told me they are really great lectures, so long as you don’t get picked on. Well, I arrived late for the first one, and had to sit in the front row, and I did get picked on. After that, no matter where I sat, he found me and asked me questions that were just impossible to answer. I was really embarrassed because he made me look stupid in front of everyone and they all thought he was really funny."
After about the fourth lecture I realized he was going to keep on picking on me, and I wasn’t prepared to put up with it any more. Everyone else thought he was hilarious and that I was taking it too personally. I know that he’s really well respected in his field as a researcher and I didn’t want to criticize him too openly – maybe I was just being a bit sensitive. Also, he is actually a really good teacher and I didn’t want his lectures to stop completely. I went to see one of the student welfare reps and told her what was going on. She said I wasn’t the first student to complain about him so she thought I ought to submit a report. I did it anonymously because I didn’t want him to know who had complained or I might get picked on even more.
I realize the raising concerns working group couldn’t give me any feedback because I hadn’t given my name. But I heard that the next year he had toned it down a bit and didn’t pick on people so much. Maybe it was less funny for everybody else, but it was definitely better that way. Also, now I’m a bit more experienced, I realize how important it was that I did something – how could I stand up for my patients if I couldn’t even stand up for myself?”
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